unvarnished truth, unconditional regard

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You can expect me to be:

• Unconditionally constructive. No matter what happens during our call, you can expect me to say only those things that further your life and your goals. If you are disturbed, I do understand. If you are stuck, I will be patient. If you can’t wait to share a victory, I will celebrate with you. I will not put you in the wrong, criticize you, or complain to you.

• Straightforward. Yes, one can be unconditionally constructive and still speak directly. From time to time, I will ask you to begin, end, or modify something. And I will honor your right to refuse.

• Comfortable with silence. I give you room to think and process.

 

What to expect from our sessions:

• You are the focus. I listen to what you say, what you are trying to say, and what you are not saying.

• I am unbiased. Once you have fully communicated, I share with you my advice, ideas, comments, and views on your situation, dilemma, or opportunity. I am an outside voice full of endorsement, compassion, and acknowledgement. Not a yes-type person, but someone who knows what it takes to work hard for what you want and need.

• We design your future. I want you to be healthy, happy, and successful. I want you to be on a strong financial track. I want you to enjoy your family and friends. I want you to have a life that inspires others and yourself. Part of my job is to be at least three steps ahead of you, yet be with you.

 

Most clients meet with me weekly or bi-monthly by video or phone.

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A Note About Confidentiality

What you are doing, how you are doing, what you have accomplished, and your personal secrets and confidences are not discussed or hinted at by me to anyone else. I might share an example from a coaching session, but never with any identifying details. 

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My client list is strictly confidential. 

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